By Essiba Small, HER Magazine
When the event invitation comes in the mail and the dress code says Formal or semi formal, as women we know we ALL got this: Formal- ankle length gown, sparkly accessories and a clutch; Semi Formal – the LBD (aka little black dress), statement piece accessories, strappy handbag or clutch.
But what about when the invitation comes and it says fashionably chic, black tie, or even festive?
Since no woman wants to show up to an event in the wrong dress code, we picked the brain of Leeyan Jeffers to find out what to wear, where.
According to Jeffers, “decoding dress codes requires intentionality and awareness. “Style can significantly contribute to your success. Consider factors such as the venue, environment, time and location,” she told Her Magazine.
“Being mindful of these elements will help you make thoughtful wardrobe choices.”
When the invitation says Cocktail
Jeffers said you can’t go wrong with the LBD.
“You can dress it up or down accordingly,” she said.
“As with all dresses you want to be mindful of the length. Mid-thigh and beyond is a great start. Sheath and satin dresses can also be worn, as well as rompers or jumpsuits. Solids, prints and sequin pieces can be accessorised accordingly.
“Heels (open or closed toe), wedges and block heel sandals are all appropriate.”
Leeyan’s tip: “When wearing solid pieces, accessories in a different colour can be worn to enhance the look.”
When the invitation says Fashionably Chic
Jeffers said this is the perfect opportunity for you to “showcase your personal style with a touch of class”.
“Do you love wearing statement tops and wide-leg trousers? Wear them!
“Do you love wearing denim pieces and unique hats? Wear them!
“Do you love wearing flowy dresses and statement accessories? Wear them,” she said.
“This dress code can entail anything from printed kaftans, two-piece sets, to skirts, jeans and even shorts (if styled appropriately). Be bold with colour choices, prints and accessories in this category. Ballet flats, loafers, sandals, heels and wedges are all appropriate based on the occasion.
“You are a walking masterpiece. As with everything in life, moderation is key.”
Leeyan’s tip: “Do not attempt to showcase every aspect of your personal style in one look. Choose silhouettes (shapes) and colours that are flattering to your body type and skin tone.”
When the invitation says Festive
Jeffers said you should opt for trendy (seasonal) colours in various silhouettes.
“Fun prints, sparkly and sequinned pieces are a must. Dresses (long or short), dressy tops and trousers, statement blazers and skirts can be worn.” She added that unique jewellery, belts and footwear can all add a touch of glitz and glam.
Leeyan’s tip: “Sparkly eyeshadow or fun lipstick colours (red, burgundy, brown or pink) can also be a great addition to your look.”
When the invitation says Business
“Professional yet stylish, business wear does not have to be boring,” Jeffers said.
“It all depends on the culture/ atmosphere of the office or company.
Dark, solid colours are usually representative of sophistication and authority.
You can however use the power of colour to your advantage. Based on your role and title, you can wear specific earthy and neutral shades.
Mixing and matching pieces can also save time and money. You can also opt for a monochromatic look- wearing different tones of one colour.
“Suits, blazers, blouses, trousers, skirts and tailored dresses are all appropriate.
Blazers and suits with contrast piping can also work.
Your handbag and shoes are also a part of your overall look, go for simple yet classy pieces that complement your outfit.
Leeyan’s tip: “Avoid strappy heels, chunky boots, sandals and sneakers.”
When the invitation says Black Tie
“Formal gowns, dresses and pantsuits are a few great options. It all depends on the type of event,” according to Jeffers.
“Don’t be afraid to wear colour and experiment with different necklines and styles.
Options can include asymmetrical dresses, with or without dramatic sleeves, tulle, or A- line gowns, elevated jumpsuits or a stylish and elegant pantsuit.
Who is Leeyan Jeffers?
Leeyan is etiquette consultant, founder and head facilitator of L.J ETIQUETTE, an agency that offers etiquette training throughout the region. She also has a decade of customer relations experience in the airline industry.
At Red Runway (a company run by Keron Ward, which exposes new upcoming designers and models to the local and international fashion industry) Jeffers is a model and personal development trainer.
